Why have we all become so discompassionate
about our fellow human beings. There is anger everywhere. And this anger is
exacerbated by social media where we vent this anger and have our friends and
acquaintances add fuel to it. We are unhappy with each and every product and
service we are offered and make sure that those companies know it. Should we
not give them a benefit of doubt that they made an honest mistake? Probably they
knew they were not doing the right thing but were hampered by the system.
We get angry with the airlines if
they are late. Fair enough. But no airliner is perennially late. We are angry
if the check-in baggage comes late. We are unhappy about our telecom service
providers. We have endless complaints about them not responding to us. We are
unhappy about politics. We are unhappy about corruption but will indulge in it
as per our discretion. We are unhappy with the restaurant if the food comes a
second late. We are sarcastic about the food with the waiter if the food is
less tasty by an infinitesimal amount. We are unhappy about rickshaw and taxi
drivers over-charging but we can do it with our customers. We will break all
traffic rules and blame others for the traffic.
All companies have their senior
management living a luxurious life but go for downsizing as soon as the
quarter sales are not up to the levels of ‘stratospheric’ satisfaction. All
that each company cares is profit at the end of the year and for attaining
that, the process is immaterial. Ethics, laws, helpfulness, care, empathy,
respect and family can take a back seat. Sales people are driven by fudging sales
numbers, accounts people are driven by window-dressing the financial
statements, finance people find ways to raise money through short-term
objectives, human resource people are worried about least employee cost. There
isn't an end to it. No one cares about the skilled worker on the shop-floor. Or
the security personnel who is watching over your multi-billionaire
conglomerate. It is ironic that you have mega photo-shoots with poor children
to show that you are doing your bit of charity and spend millions on television
ads when the same money can be used for the betterment of those children.
Why are we becoming so impatient.
What are we going to do with the time we are saving by not stopping at the 30
second traffic signal. We are always on the worry about our jobs because we
have so many wants which we assume are our needs. Social media has made people
consume things to show others that they are living an exciting life. The
situation is rather contrasting. Lifestyle diseases are on the rise. Love is at
an all-time low.
Look inward and you will see that
there are solutions. If we stop living life like wanting to consume each and
every materialistic pursuit available, we will have more time for ourselves. We
will be more accepting of supposed problems in our life and be compassionate
towards people. Respect a human being and not the chair that he occupies. The
sweeper is not less human than the Chief executive officer. Everyone is bound
by the same life and how you help others show who you are than the external
manifestation.
Our current ways of life can be
summed up by the two lines of this beautiful poem from W.H. Davies “What is
this life if, full of care, We have no time to stand and stare.”